Iron and Steel in Different Countries

A typical failing point for most men is that on a first date, the woman gets bored of them, the connection and attraction fizzle out, and they end up getting the "Let's just be friends" speech. By using Neuro Linguistic Programming techniques, it will be possible for you to get a deeper connection with the girl and ensure that she wants to see you again whilst becoming more attracted to you! 1. Mirror & Match  A basic NLP technique is mirroring and matching.P eople have mannerisms, ways of sitting, gestures, etc.I f you must say something is bad, negate a positive instead- saying something wasn't amazing is better than saying it was horrid.T ry repeating each one 10 times and notice that the negated positive has no effect on your mind.I t's like saying "I'm not a loser" all day, you will feel like a loser because our subconscious doesn't understand negations.I f she brings up a negative topic, pace it and agree with her, then positively steer the conversation.B y removing negative words from your vocabulary, people will want to spend more time with you, and she will want another date because you make her feel good!3 . Pace & Lead Pacing and leading involves matching what she has said or what you think she thinks and then leading her to a new answer which is beneficial for you. You want to develop a 'yes ladder' so you can say "I know first dates are not always comfortable (she nods), and sometimes they seem comfortable and you might not want to be there when they aren't going really well (nods) but then sometimes you have to take chances and be adventurous to be truly happy (nods)". 4. Visualisation  Speak in a way that allows her to picture things.D o this by picturing the scene yourself as you speak.W hen you want to elicit the emotion again, touch her in the same place and it should bring the emotion out.