Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Conscious Internet Dating: Balancing High Tech with High Touch

In a new trend, singles are becoming increasingly frustrated with internet dating.


In some ways, using a computer to find your soul mate is like trying to cook a souffle in a microwave.


4. Some users are game players, predators.


Today's singles seem to be relying on their computer a bit too much and complacently expecting the internet to deliver their soul mate.


This is a version of the Fairytale Trap (one of fourteen dating traps in my book "Conscious Dating").


Chemistry is critically important for a successful relationship.


Everyone wants a partner they feel strong chemistry with, and a relationship would be pretty dry and unsustainable without it.


The Fourth Principle of Conscious Dating is "Balance Your Heart With Your Head."


Identifying your requirements, needs, and wants does not minimize the need for chemistry.


The Law of Attraction is inescapable and either works for you or against you.


If you're "busy" or "shy" and the internet is your only means of reaching potential partners, in a way you're hiding behind your computer and the Law of Attraction is not likely to help you.


The Law of Attraction states that "like attracts like" and "energy follows attention," meaning your results reflect your thoughts and your actions.


Over the years I've become convinced that the Law of Attraction is a powerful law of the Universe, like gravity.


Get a group of singles together (any gender mix) to support each other to meet potential partners.


In today's busy world with cell phones, texting, instant messaging, e-mail, and the internet promoting impersonal ways of interacting with others, it's easy to forget the lost art of engaging with real people that are right in front of you.


Since most people find their soul mate through someone they know, be open to developing new friendships and expanding your support community.


Chances are you already have acquaintances at work and other places that you would enjoy spending more time with.


Too many singles lead isolated lives centered around work, home, and a few friends.


Participating in clubs, groups, classes, charities, church/temple, is the most important way you can leverage the Law of Attraction to help you find your soul mate.


Technology can help us in many ways.


Online dating is a wonderful tool that allows you to leverage your time and meet many more people than you could otherwise.


However, let's not forget that humans are social beings and finding your life partner is a relationship goal that is probably more effectively acheived by getting away from your computer as well as using it.


As the ancient Roman playwright Terence once said- "Moderation in all things."


Do you think he meant the internet as well?


  



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