In a new trend, singles are becoming increasingly disillusioned with internet dating and seeking alternatives.
In some ways, using a computer to find your soul mate is like trying to cook a souffle in a microwave. Some users are game players, predators, cheaters 5.T oday's singles seem to be relying on their computer a bit too much and complacently expecting the internet to deliver their soul mate.T his is a version of the Fairytale Trap (one of fourteen dating traps in my book "Conscious Dating").C hemistry is critically important for a successful relationship.E veryone wants a partner they feel strong chemistry with, and a relationship would be pretty dry and unsustainable without it.T he Fourth Principle of Conscious Dating is "Balance Your Heart With Your Head."I dentifying your requirements, needs, and wants does not minimize the need for chemistry.T he Law of Attraction is inescapeable and either works for you or against you.I f you're "busy" or "shy" and the internet is your only means of reaching potential partners, in a way you're hiding behind your computer and the Law of Attraction is not likely to help you.T he Law of Attraction states that "like attracts like" and "energy follows attention," meaning your results reflect your thoughts and your actions.O ver the years I've become convinced that the Law of Attraction is a powerful law of the Universe, like gravity.G et a group of singles together (any gender mix) to support each other to meet potential partners.I n today's busy world with cell phones, texting, instant messaging, e-mail, and the internet promoting impersonal ways of interacting with others, it's easy to forget the lost art of engagement with real people that are right in front of you.S ince most people find their soul mate through someone they know, be open to developing new friendships and expanding your support community.C hances are you already have acquaintances at work and other places that you would enjoy spending more time with.T oo many singles lead isolated lives centered around work, home, and a few friends.P articipating in clubs, groups, classes, charities, church/temple, is the most important way you can leverage the Law of Attraction to help you find your soul mate.A s the ancient Roman playwright Terence once said "Moderation in all things."L et's address this trend of over-reliance on the internet for finding love.P lease pass this article along to the frustrated singles in your life that you care about! Related post: Getting The Right Credit Card Debt Help Related content: chemistry: principle: dating: |
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
Frustrated With Internet Dating? Top Five Ways to Find Your Soul Mate Without a Computer
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